New year resolution

I know a lot of people make all new resolutions every year, they promise to lose weight and eat better, stop smoking, be more patient, but I refuse to play along. There are enough disappointments and failures in life to not add another. I have made them before and by the third week I have given up. I end up kicking myself for the rest of the year about how I failed myself. It is not worth it. If you want to lose weight it is okay to start in march or September. January 1st does not have to be the start of failure.